From Happy Hour to Play Hour: Fatherhood

Dimitris Moutsatsos
2 min readOct 30, 2023

As a father of two, my social life has seen a significant transformation over the past five years. The arrival of my son, followed by my daughter two and a half years later, shifted the dynamics of my friendships in ways I hadn’t anticipated.

Back in the day, my social circle was as diverse and dynamic as my workplace at Mad TV, filled with hangouts and weekend long-coffees that often lasted until late.

But as fatherhood took center stage, my priorities changed. The spontaneous gatherings with friends began to dwindle, replaced by family activities and playdates. My time became more precious, and my availability for impromptu hangouts was limited.

Slowly, I began to notice a divide between my child-free friends and me. It wasn’t that they weren’t supportive or happy for me. They showered me with congratulations and loved my kids, but our worlds had diverged. The sleepless nights, diaper changes, and parenting challenges were foreign to them, and our conversations struggled to find common ground.

In the place of my child-free friends, a new social circle emerged, one filled with fellow parents who shared the same struggles and joys of raising children. Our hangouts were now at parks and family-friendly restaurants, and our conversations were dominated by parenting tips and milestone stories.

This shift in my friendships was bittersweet. I missed the ease and spontaneity of my old friendships, the shared history, and inside jokes that had formed over years of camaraderie. But at the same time, I found comfort in my new dad friends, who understood the unique challenges that come with balancing fatherhood and a demanding job as an IT.

As my son starts school and my daughter continues to explore her world with the wide-eyed wonder of a toddler, I appreciate the village that has formed around us. These fellow parents have become more than just friends; they are our support system and our confidants in this wild journey called parenthood. And as we navigate the complexities of raising young children together, I realize that friendships, much like life, are constantly evolving, shaped by our experiences, choices, and circumstances.



Dimitris Moutsatsos

developer and weirdo / current: Tychetech / MAD TV / WARR